A Gift of Words To Me From Tony

A celebration for you and me we have reached. It’s a joy ever so unbelievable how his grace covered us constantly. A year to remember a God kind of way of strengthening. This is our 17th. I stand amazed of the strength you have shown me. The fortress woman that lies beneath. He had made you strong I knew this since fourteen. But never did I know how it would come to rescue our matrimony. We stood in defeat. Found ourselves weak. Laid our past at His feet. Came out undeservingly touched by Him Graciously. You A gift from “I Am."

Precious to me. Now I am Amazed to see Our 17th. Love rules our venture. The enemy Can’t take away our adventure. Only God knows His plan. Prayerfully it involves Distant lands. Our desire to meet Others needs Uniquely He Place these things In you and me. Only time will see What The father Plans for this decree But now this blessing Is true to be This is our 17th.

Birth Announcement

BENT down. BREATHED on. REVIVED. UNCOVERED treasure PLACED within. EXCAVATED. LIFTED out. ALIVE. SHAPED around. LAYING beneath. FOCUS drawn. SIFTING. impending BIRTH. BARREN no more. WORDS brought FORTH. CREATIVITY is BORN.

Dying To Be Loved

Would you have gone there if you knew she needed to be saved? Desiring for you to love her? More than a pair of high heels on a rainy day? How could you not have seen that the woman that lay beneath you was dying? Dying to be loved. She smiled and moaned feeding your pride, but what you heard was the cry of her insides. Insides moaned as scars split open, bleeding, disrupted, aggravated by your touch. Not moaning in passion but moaning in pain. You in a place you weren't created to be. Couldn't you see that she was dying? Dying to be loved. She wanted to be loved and you with your prideful agenda entered into a place your covenant commanded not to go. Inward parts moaned, bled, cried out “I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED!” Emotional pain you inflicted. Pain traveling depths far beyond your exit. You blinded by deceit and darkness stood unable to see that the woman with tears falling reaching one last time for your hand was dying, dying to be loved. A hidden treasure placed within her waiting to be discovered. Treasure inside a secret place you were not designed to reach. Designed only for the one who would appreciate its worth, gently soothing the scars within her. A created treasure all your own waiting at home. Worth unseen past prideful endeavor. She too lay dying, dying to be loved. I will reach deep telling this woman that in which you could not. I will tell her that she is worthy, worthy to be loved. I will tell her of the beautiful treasure she possess within. I will tell her that she is loved, loved by The Creator and loved by me. I will tell her of your transformation, the grace you are now cloaked in. I will tell her that I too walked in her shoes seeking, searching, insides crying out. I will tell her that I no longer lay dying to be loved. I now live and live because I have met The Creator Love.

Clothed In Grace

Laying naked at the alter within the walls that had become my sanctuary, screaming as emotional pain turned physical. It was there between the stark white walls of my shower where my suffering allowed sensitivity to Gods voice. The weight of chains bound around my naked flesh drawing me to the floor, head laying at the drain. Eyes swollen seeing only a shadow through its frosted glass door. He had followed me closely down the dimly lit path to this place of sanctuary both dragging with us chains of revelation. Revelation of our own and of one another. Tongues pulsating in relief after years of being held in submission. Each fearing for many years that in a moment of passion we'd become weak telling the tale of dancing beneath the oceans deep, dark waters of infidelity. Never imagining we'd both swam there. I screamed and I screamed until the shadow disappeared. My husband had looked at me intimately for the last sixteen years, yet I could not bare him looking at me in this moment. I entered as offender and as victim, always knowing I was one, but never imagining the other. I could not speak, only scream wordless screams never imagining them to be answered, but in His mercy God answered my screams. His right hand lifting me, drying my drenched body, clothing me in His Grace. When nothing else could help, Love lifted me. I proclaimed for many years this creator of Love, yet I did not completely give my heart to him until the day I reached out of my madness allowing my hand to be taken into His. So many more layers lay beneath this story of being clothed in grace, so many more layers of this particular day to unfold. More layers I plan on sharing with you over time. The layers are complex and require much sensitivity. I pray that this portion reads to you, the reader as it does to me....God Reveals and God Rescues. In the days and months that followed He showed us that He is also a Restorer. I am anxious to share that part with you...in time, in time.

For The Love of Transparency

Today John Piper's God Is Gospel spoke to my fear of writing based on the fact that I am not a professional writer. “What is written must of course be intelligible, but grammar is not the point. Love is the point.” My two desires for the stories I write is for them to serve the one whose feet are bruised and beautiful and for this collection of writings to read as love letters. Stories of my life penned only because of Love Himself whom pursues me daily and in this pursuit I find myself compelled to pour out that in which has been poured into me. I am not my own therefore what I share I am not the main character nor author of. If you so choose to read this blog, read knowing that you will find grammatical errors and words out of place, but what you won't find is anything short of transparency. I will not hide myself from you. I believe that hiding myself would only serve to keep you in hiding as well. This act benefits no one. I will never forget the day sitting in our first church membership class having the man across from Tony and I look at his wife and say “I want a marriage like theirs. I want you to place your hand on my back the way she places hers upon his.” Even as a young believer I knew I had to respond to his assumption of our marriage in truth. It would have been easy for pride to have his way, but would only have kept their fantasy of marriage alive. I knew the only way to love this couple was to expose the fantasy for what it was which in turn would give them hope. They sat with somewhat deflated faces as the realization hit them that our marriage journeys had traveled the same dusty road. It was in that moment that I became a lover of transparency.

Hello Traveling Companions

This week begins the journey to write again. Stay tuned!

Transparently Yours,
JennU

Fragrant Vessel

Anxiousness tapping at every part of my flesh. Mind quiet. Stirring, Stirring. Time to write. Most often unaware of the words my fingers will form. Gazing, Gazing around the room. The scent next to me capturing my attention rising from the fragrant vessel next to my bed. Reaching over lured in by the smell. Transported back to the birth place of my tiny treasure.
Stepped into Paradise Sweets where my love affair with the caramel macchiato was rekindled. Out the door paradise in hand being captured by notes floating upon the ocean air. Carried to a sandy sanctuary where steel drums offered up sounds of praise and worship. Eyes becoming fixed upon tiny clay vessels. Not one resembling the other. Each complimented by tall clear bottles filled with oil. Inviting smile requesting I come closer. A dab on his left arm and a dab on the right. Frankincense on one Myrrh on the other. Senses becoming clothed in richness. Carefully choosing a turquoise vessel. Pouring two together within the clay making them one. Most assuredly I carry in my vessel the aroma of Proverbs 31.


I must share with you a bit about Lenzer, the artist behind those tiny fragrant vessels. He works with Youth Arts Corp. in Tampa walking hand and hand in the studio with his students. He said of his students that they have such strong aesthetic ability that needs to be caught before it turns into something else. He teaches them how to make a living selling their art. He also teaches them to recognize and take to the heights the ability God has given them. Listening to Lenzer speak on the beach that Sunday morning as steel drums played behind us, we were taught that everything has been touched by an artist.